One more word of advice: avoid checking her profile to see whether she’s logged on. Several reasons:
1. This gets the possibility to distort your mindset. You don’t wish to lapse into reasoning, ”So! She’s got the time and energy to log in to OKCupid to check always away other dudes, but evidently she cannot be troubled to. ” (become clear, i am perhaps maybe perhaps not characterizing this as the real mind-set currently; simply saying it is one thing to be prevented. )